Every child communicates in their own unique way, and all forms of communication are valid! Whether your child speaks, uses signs, uses gestures, or uses an AAC device - their voice matters. Here are seven fun and inclusive ways to support your child's speech and language development while respecting their individual needs and preferences.
1. Engage in Back-and-Forth Interaction
Instead of focusing only on words, celebrate all types of communication! Respond to your child's gestures, facial expressions, and sounds with enthusiasm. If they point to a toy, acknowledge it: “You love that car! It goes vroom!” Creating a supportive, pressure-free environment builds confidence in communication.
2. Read in a Way That Works for Them
Reading together should be enjoyable, not stressful. Let your child engage in a way that suits them—whether that means flipping pages back and forth, focusing on pictures, or listening to your voice. If they prefer movement while listening, try audiobooks or storytelling during a walk or playtime.
3. Encourage Imitation Without Pressure
Imitation is a natural way to learn, but forcing repetition can be frustrating for some children. Instead, model words, sounds, or actions and celebrate any response they choose. If they copy you, great! If they respond with a different movement or sound, that’s great too! Acknowledge their effort and keep it fun.
4. Expand on Their Communication - Any Form of It!
When your child expresses something-through words, gestures, sign language, augmentative and alternative communication (AAC) device, or facial expressions-expand on it naturally. If they point to a dog, you can say, “It’s a dog!” or expand to, “It’s a big/fluffy/brown dog!”. Recognising and validating all types of communication fosters confidence and connection.
5. Incorporate Visuals and Sensory Supports
Some children benefit from visual aids like picture cards, schedules, or AAC devices. Others may prefer movement, sensory play, or songs to reinforce language. Adapt your approach based on what feels comfortable for your child and follow their lead in what they enjoy and how they best engage.
6. Create Invitations to Communicate—Without Frustration
Instead of withholding an item to force a verbal request, create natural opportunities for communication. Offer choices (“Do you want the blue or red cup?”), pause expectantly during a familiar song for them to fill in the gaps, or wait after asking a question to give them time to respond in their own way.
7. Make Play the Priority
Language learning happens best when it’s fun! Play in a way that excites your child-whether that’s pretend play, sensory bins, or movement games. Let them lead the play and engage in their interests while naturally weaving in language, gestures, or communication supports.
Remember
Supporting your child’s speech and language doesn’t mean pushing them to meet rigid milestones-it’s about celebrating their unique way of communicating and making sure they feel heard, valued, and understood. If you have concerns, a speech-language pathologist can offer guidance tailored to your child's needs.
Inner West Paediatrics offers expert assessments and tailored support to help children thrive. Contact us through our website or call our clinic ((02) 9560 8905) to book an appointment with a Speech Pathologist who understands your child’s unique needs.
